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when you have a family with alot of siblings..

Monday, August 10, 2009, 2:11 AM

how you feel being the middle one out of all 5 siblings and in academic wise, you are not the best or the worst?

let's have a small introduction..

dad - got kick out of school since 13 but he's now a great businessman who gives inspirational talks.

mum - educational level up to secondary 4 not even a graduate.

eldest brother - graduated from ITE engineering, but not working in this field, instead, a chef

2nd brother - graduated from NUS IT computing, also not working in this field, worked as a manager in ritz carlton and quited his job to be a hawker under my dad's influence.

eldest sis which is me - in Manjusri, i got merit for new south wales maths..now still in polytechnic applied food science and nutrition, not the best in class and the worst in cohort.

2nd sister - cleverest among us. in primary school, she had taken math olympiac and in EM1 class. she got several awards from table tennis competitions. in tanjong katong girls', she was already in top 5, got awards from new south wales for getting high distinction for science and distinction for maths. by the age of 15, she entered TEMASEK JUNIOR COLLEGE and she is still one of the best students.

youngest sis - entered Anglican high just because the PSLE for her year was freaking easy and it was also due to moderation and thus she got the aggregate of 250. so far no award since young.

okay..let's move on..

today is the shittest day whereby i swear that i will never care about this family except for my 2nd sister.

i have been putting in my effort to satisfy everyone. but today i got the worst lines ever from my dad.

"stop trying to abuse your power and try to put her down. neither are you the creme of the crop. you're trying to act clever . you are nothing. teaching matters leave it to teachers. it's their business to educate my daughter. you are just trying to give her pressure so you can feel the ultimate pleasure and satisfaction in you. you are not in right position to say anything because you are not clever to do so. you are just hungry for power. you are such a selfish person."

so what makes my dad think that he has the right to talk about my academy when he was fired by the school since secondary 1? or i should say he was kicked out of the school. you are only clever or acting wise at the age of 35 where you started reading books but it's all CHINESE BOOKS.
you, as a public speaker, told me all these hurtful things, not even considering that im also a daughter of yours, your image of being someone great and wise is long gone.
i mean it was long GONE. because it wasnt once, it's all the time you are trying to overpower me with your words and anger. finally you have said that piece of your mind letting me know how lousy you think of me and so you think about my sister too.

i dont even know im your daughter. all the things you care is if i were to do anything bad so i were qualified to be a rotten apple. why dont you care about my health? my life? why is all these things bothering you when im not doing anything that spoils your reputation.

i swear that i have done my part as a daughter. to address you in courtesy, to make you feel like you are the best dad by giving you the best father's day, never talk back ever since sec 3, never talk to you impolitely, to concern you everytime you come home from work which gives you plenty of unhappiness and always say "thanks dad and goodbye" when you fetch me to school.

sometimes you said this, sometimes you said that. when are you going to stop your contradictions?
when are you going to stop psycho-ing me with your psychotic illogical words?
dont act profound anymore.
if your listeners were to hear what you this OH-SO-NICE daddy saying nonsense to us, who will be there for your next talk?

for your info, i will never come back to you to plead for your help even if there's a fall in my middle 20 or 30s.
i will be financial independent. your so-called not-very-clever daughter has already grown up and knows how to think for herself.

ALL these shits today wont happen if you were not being biased.
i lost my cool, wanting to shout a word FUCK at you. but i restrained. just want to stop all those screamings. im freaking fucking tired.

at the age of 18, im not jealous about the fact that im no longer your attention and most love is diverted to other siblings.
but why cant there be justice when you jolly well open your BIG BLOODY EYES to see who's right and wrong.

i never like to scream at someone unless the person talks to me impolitely.
being old fashioned or what, courtesy is what i like most if that strength is found in others.
if someone cant talk to me properly, why must i talk nicely to someone who keep yelling at me for no good reasons?

im upset, definitely but more resilient. learning that this family is damn freaking freaking screw up, i thought of putting my plan into action as soon as i graduate from poly and get a stable job. in this family, i can only pour my feelings out in front of my sister not the youngest, i fucking hate her now.
it's always her rebellious acts putting me in such a state.

in a chinese-speaking family with parents whose education is only at secondary school level, not even o level level certificates they earn,
i've tried my best to give my youngest sister whatever resourceful texts so her results would be better.
i've assigned homework - book reviews so that it can ensure that she reads enough and her choice of vocabularies is widen.

for each book review, i give her one week to complete. she had dragged on because her book review was not passable and i gave her another one more week to complete. and then now it's the three week.
she had given me the worst excuse and i tried to talk nicely.
freaking hell, she started screaming at me because i asked for her book review which was yet to be done at the time 10.48 pm.
i left her with two choices [at the point, i was already emotionally unstable, feel like yelling at that pork] - either she hand it in to me before 12am or she forever need not do whatever is for her own good.
the fire in her was burning and she was fuming, trying to argue that she was tired that's why she helped my mum to do some unimportant lame shit things.
3 WEEKS. nothing was produced.

as the eldest sister, i was worrying about her english grades and yet that fat bitch was screaming her throat out at me in front of two old ancient relics.
who stands a chance to win? it can never be me. because im not the youngest and not the best in academic.
GO TO HELL MAN.

out of my concern, i asked how's her book review and when she could submit.
arent i kind enough instead of screaming at her to show my worries?
i have two brothers but in my toughest point of life, they didnt even lend a helping hand.
i fought my way through.
i know partly it was about the age gap which i cant blame on.
being the closest to both sisters, i help whatever i can.
give them my advice when they have problem and help them in some fields that they are not very good in [such as biology, human and anatomy and organic and food chemistry]. never do i thought of using my powers to manipulate them.
I NEVER.
i dote them the most although sometimes i might laugh at them being such fatty bom boms.
i buy some food home because i know my sisters love food.
i share snacks with them knowing that house rule doesnt allow snacks especially for the both of them.
i try to let them learn not to walk my path as it wasnt a pleasant and smooth one.
all i have tried.
then why am i still getting hurt and defame so easily?

sometimes this is the problem of having a fat sister.
FAT BITCH.
cry in the toilet as if she is going to camp inside and explore the toilet.
why cry when you think you are freaking right and did no wrong to me? why cry so badly when you got two relics to help you and i have got no one? since you think im accusing you, then why cry so hard to force your lard tears out of your tooty eyes?
and you lies are running in between your teeth. i didnt even hear an apology from you.
who you are trying to lie to?
be an innocent shit.

anglican high is not a easy school to enter and it's not a very reputable school compared to TKGS which school ranking always in the top few in the whole of singapore.
you with your pig brain juice had changed our decision made for you LAST MINUTE before you threw the confirmation posting paper into the box.
and now you are trying hard to get fame or doing anything to be famous. do you think people want to care what a fat bitch trying to do?
you are such a bloody stupid ugly fat ignorant bitch and worse, having a sister like you, i feel so sucky and yucky.

i shouldnt have care more for you, wasting my time and effort trying to make your dream come true [going to st. andrew JC..now it's a BIG FAT HOPE FOR YOU]. you are just like any ordinary slutty people in poly - BITCH.
now im going to stick closely to be 2nd sister because we have given up hope on YOU. you are not well bred yet you are in such a well bred family.
you failed to be my sister.
neither are you caring, loving nor protective.
at such a young age of 13, you have started to care about your dignity and ego more than us.
siblings' love is the most important in a family.
dont seems like you know that trying all means to stop your sister getting hurt is more important than your ego.

NOW it's 2 against 1.
you can have all the fun to fight with me and fi.
you never win me in voice, in words and even in a fight.
LOSER.
go live your loser life.
you are protected by the two relics i dont care.
one day you will ultimately be that rotten apple. and their jaws will drop and you will give them the best gifts - HEART ATTACKs.

im so glad that i got someone to love me like fifi although she always KAOPEH me but still help me when i need help and i got my dearest Zheng wei to comfort me. unlike you, PORKSTER, cry baby go find daddy and mommy.
i cant be bothered about you from NOW ON.

BITCHZXWZXWXZXZXZXWXZXWXZXXZXZXZX! fuck MAN

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